Who should you blame?
I’ve noticed two extremes. Those who think they are useless and blame themselves for everything, and those that are angry at the world and blame everyone else for everything.
Listen to me on this, you are better off blaming yourself than others.
Why? You can change yourself, but changing others is nearly impossible. At the very least it is much easier to make changes in your life than to try to convince someone else to make changes in theirs.
The important point here is that people will do what they want, and think what they want. The easiest thing to adjust is how you deal with it. It is OK to blame yourself for things, but imperative that you keep a good attitude and use that to change your path to make things better. Don’t blame anyone else for your circumstances when you get in a bad spot, just use it as a chance to learn. Keep yourself out of that spot in the future, and become a better person for the lessons you learn.
photo by: IK 169